When you drive the vehicle of marriage-life, although you give the driving-seat and steering-wheel to the marriage-partner and allow the marriage-partner to drive the vehicle of marriage-life at times, you must always keep your stronger, powerful right hand on the steering-wheel firmly right-round the marriage-partner. The journey is very, very difficult. There are hills, slopes, bridges, holes, bends, bumps, barriers and so on, on the way. And also there are other vehicles on the way. Not only that is, but the vehicle of marriage-life also may have some running-errors. So ….. Meanwhile you must be in touch with brakes and accelerator too. Therefore your marriage-partner may be intelligent, socially well-experienced, educated, comprehensive and open-hearted. But…..By all these, never intend the mastery, executive, authoritative and commanding nature of a husband.